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Scripture:
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” — 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV)
Facing Your Past, Wrestling With the Present
Some mornings, life feels like a punch in the gut. You get up, look in the mirror, and there he is—the guy you thought you left behind. The anger, the pride, the mistakes that still cling. It whispers, You are who you were. And some days, that lie almost feels true. I am that man. Angry. Frustrated. Full of pride and regret. Some mornings I feel like I’ve been fighting the same battle for decades, like the old me will never loosen its grip. But here’s the brutal truth: God doesn’t leave you chained to your past. In Christ, the old you is gone. The new you exists, even if you can’t fully see him yet.
The tricky part is that the change God promises doesn’t always look like what we imagine. We want instant transformation, a clean cut: anger gone, pride gone, bad habits eradicated overnight. That’s not how God works. When He gives you a new heart, He sparks real change, but it’s messy, gradual, and often painful. You fight the flesh, your old habits, even yourself. Satan knows this and will not sit idle. The moment you start walking with Christ, he becomes your chief accuser, whispering lies, dredging up guilt, reminding you of every failure, every ugly part of your past. He wants you to believe that you are defined by yesterday, that your efforts are futile, that God can’t really change you.
Paul understood this tension well. Romans 7 lays it out plainly: “For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing” (Romans 7:19, NIV). Even Paul, the apostle, wrestled with the flesh fighting the Spirit, the old nature resisting the new. And yet, God doesn’t leave us in that struggle without hope. The promise is real: you are a new creation in Christ, even as the fight rages inside you. Every temptation, every accusation, every time your flesh screams louder than your Spirit is an opportunity to cling to the truth that your identity is not in failure but in Christ.
Living the New You
Living as this new creation means acknowledging the tension while refusing to let it define you. You call out the lies of your past and speak truth over them. You confront the shame, the anger, the guilt, and the habits that try to pull you back into the old man, knowing that God is at work inside you. Life does not pause for you to “feel ready,” and change is never neat. God’s work happens in the thick of the struggle, in the grind of daily life, in the moments when Satan whispers, You’re still the same. Nothing’s really changed. That’s exactly when you lean on the Spirit, pray with persistence, read Scripture, journal your thoughts, and lean into accountability with other men who speak truth over you. Transformation is slow, it’s messy, and it often looks like failure before it looks like victory. But every act of obedience, every refusal to return to the old ways, every moment you resist Satan’s accusations, is proof that God is reshaping you.
You act like it matters because it does. Your identity is not theoretical; it shows in your words, your actions, your relationships, and your decisions. Old habits, pride, and anger might still flare up, but they do not define you. God redeems your past, strengthens your present, and shapes your future. Life is brutal, some days flat-out suck, and the enemy will try to remind you of every mistake you’ve ever made. Yet the new you—the man God is forming—is stronger than the accusations, wiser than the impulses, and rooted in the truth that you are not who you were.
Prayer
Lord, life is hard, and some days it feels like I’m losing. The enemy whispers lies about my past, my failures, and my weaknesses, and some days I believe them. Remind me that I am not what I was. Help me embrace the new heart You have given me, even as I wrestle with the old. Give me the courage to resist the accuser, the discipline to fight the flesh, and the faith to trust that You are shaping a stronger, wiser, and more faithful man in me. Amen.
Reflection / Journaling Questions
- Which parts of your past or habits does Satan keep reminding you of, and how do those accusations affect your daily life?
- In what areas are you still living like the old you instead of embracing the new creation God has made you to be?
- How do you recognize the difference between the flesh fighting against the Spirit and the Spirit leading you forward?
- Who in your life can hold you accountable, speak truth into your struggles, and help you resist both old habits and the enemy’s lies?
- What practical steps can you take today to act like the new you—one that reflects God’s redemption—even when life is messy and the battle feels real?
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Sources
- 2 Corinthians 5:17 – Bible Gateway (NIV)
- Romans 7:19 – Bible Gateway (NIV)
- Galatians 5:16-17 – Bible Gateway (NIV)
- John Piper, Counted Righteous in Christ
- Tim Keller, The Prodigal God
- N. T. Wright, Paul: Fresh Perspectives
- Charles Swindoll, Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life
- J. I. Packer, Knowing God
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